Professional insight with James Parry

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Hi everyone

I've been thinking, 'How do you define success in coaching,' You could ask a hundred coaches and no doubt get a HUNDRED answers. Each one of us is unique. We have different targets, expectations and players to work with. The higher the level, the greater the pressure. Criticism is not uncommon.

As a coach I have experienced many highs over the last few years. It has brought me a full time career with satisfaction, knowledge and prestige.
Success in Soccer terms is so personal and can be achieved in a variety of ways. I shall discuss my own current feelings on success in coaching. They are largely based on self reflection and maturation. I've come to the feeling that's it's not about money, points, or status.

As a coach I am a teacher and role model to the players in my team. I take great pride and an active responsibility in what I do. I believe in being accountable - My professional credibility should be tested. How can I progress otherwise?

I set very high standards each day. Yesterday has gone, I shouldn't be judged on reputation. I feel success can only be gained when I prepare well and organise my sessions, both on and off the soccer field.
The presentation and progression is vital.
Feedback and interaction from the team is vital. Their development and learning should be a my motivation.
I chose to join DMS11 because I knew I could achieve this here.

 

DMS11 U13's, LAFC Summer Classic Tournament Finalists. both dms11 u13 teams made the final. A taste of Success, but not my real motivation as a coach.

I really believe that my success as a coach centres on helping the players I work with. I want to provide improvement in a focused, disciplined and enjoyable environment. There should be respect, but not fear between us all. Everyone wants to be at practice.
Measuring success is just as important. I know I'm doing things right when fellow coaches and peers show a positive interest in my work and theories.
Recognition and appreciation from players parents is also huge. This is one of my big discoveries since moving to Southern California.

Ultimately I am Youth Team Soccer Coach. I shouldn't be rated or assessed on winning matches.There is a far bigger picture that requires patience and trust.My main aim is therefore to guide our DMS11 players to reach the next level with better confidence, talent and attitude. Then I will know I have been successful as a coach.

James